Just A Quick Catch Up
Hi and thanks for stopping by my blog.
It‘s been such a long time since I’ve written a blog post that I thought I should let you know why and what’s been going on in my personal life that has caused me to stop posting.
My regular readers will know that I had a minor operation back in June and that I was then on bed rest for three months while the op’ site healed. It still hasn’t healed and has in fact got worse, so much so that I now have to see a Plastic Surgeon about fixing me up again.
On top of that my mum has been admitted to The Neuro ICU at The John Radcliffe Hospital, Oxford.
Roughly Four years ago my mum had a series of strokes and was in hospital for a few months. During which time she was found to have Four Aneurisms around her brain. Surgeons managed to make two of them safe by fitting coils around them but found that the remaining two were conjoined and would be extremely difficult to operate on, putting my mums life at risk.
Sadly on September 11th the conjoined aneurisms erupted and led to a bleed on the brain. Luckily my wife had been to visit my mum that day and couldn’t get an answer when knocking on the door, so she phoned one of my brothers and asked him to call in after work and see that mum was ok.
Shortly after my brother arrived at my mums, she seemed to have some kind of seizure and fell into her armchair. My brother called an ambulance and my mum was rushed to Stoke Mandeville Hospital, where they gave her a CAT scan which showed a bleed to her brain.
My mum was then rushed to The Neuro Intensive Care Unit at The John Radcliffe Hospital, Oxford. She was taken to theatre in the early hours of Saturday 12th where a surgeon fitted a drain to remove the excess blood from her brain. After the operation the surgeon told us to go home and contact family members as her chances of survival were extremely slim.
When we returned to the hospital we were taken to the dreaded side room to talk to the doctor in charge of my mum. We were then told that my mums condition was critical but that she was putting up a good fight and whilst she was fighting the hospital would do all it could to assist her.
She was in the Neuro ICU for 3 weeks with a nurse and family member by her side 24/7. The doctors were assessing her 3 times a day then meeting with my family once a day to keep us informed.
She has now been moved to the Neuro Science Ward where her condition is now stable, thanks to the dedication and hard work of the Doctors and Nurses of the Neuro Science Unit.
My mum still has a long road to recovery but is making a small improvement every day. Now that she is on a ward there are restrictions on visiting times, which has enabled my family to return to our lives and try to catch up on various commitments, hence this post.
I’m still travelling to Oxford every day to see my mum and meet with doctors to discuss her progress and the next step. My mum is also deaf which makes it very difficult for the nursing staff to communicate with her, so I’m also relaying the information to her.
Nobody can say how long it will take my mum to recover; in fact we’ve been told that “due to the devastating bleed on her brain she may not be able to make a full recovery”. All we can do now is wait and see.
I will be back on line with some fresh content as soon as possible.
In the mean time, take good care of yourselves and your loved ones.
Respect and Regards, Barry

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Bad luck Barry, this post just emphasises how important good health is, and how lucky you are if you have it. Your Mother sounds like a real fighter and with that attitude she has the best chance for a recovery. Very best wishes to you and your family.
John
Hi Barry,
Very sorry to hear this Barry, i rerally hope things go ok and that your mum gains a good recovery in times like these masterclass comes second!!
Take care Barry my thoughts are with you….Ed.
Hi Barry,
Sorry for your troubles, Barry. Your mother sounds like one tough lady. You seem to have a good extended family who are rallying round and that is the most important thing.
Best wishes mate, Brian
Hey Barry,
I will put you amd your moms swift recovery in my prayers.
Scott
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Barry, I am so sorry to hear your news. I wish you and your mum a good recovery.
Mandy
Twitter: kathydobson
Barry…your mum is one strong individual. What a will to live! I wish you and your mum a speedy full recovery. Don’t worry about your readers, we’ll still be around whether you’re part-time or full-time. Right now, life is asking other things of you.
Blessings to all…Kathy
Hi Barry,
I am sorry for your news. Your mum sounds like she is not ready to give up yet! It is a funny thing about mothers, they can be resilient, iron clad and definite fighters. I think that is why most people call them lionesses. They are always there to protect their cubs no matter what and their cubs always come first.
Take Care of your family. Family should always come first! And as Kathy says we are here when you come back! (Plus I have you in google reader so I will be notified when you are back!
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Take Care and Be Good To You Too!
Jacinta
Hi Barry
I am so sorry to hear about you mom. I will keep you both in my thoughts and I wish you both well.
Best wishes
Ann
Hi Barry,
So sorry to hear about your Mum. But it sounds to me (I’m an ex-nurse) as if she has two great assetts to give her the best chance of recovery – her own strength of character, and her loving, supportive family.
Plastic surgeons can do amazing things these days – I wish both you and your Mum a smooth road back to the best health you can achieve.
Warmest regards,
Sue
Hi Barry so sorry to hear your news,we are in a similar situation with my dad.these things give you a mortality wake up call.
My thoughts are with you and your family
wishing you and your mum a speedy recovery
kindest regards
Adam
Hi all, Barry here.
I would like to thank you all for your kind words of support and encouragement.
My mum is getting a little better every day, and is currently waiting for a bed to become available at our local hospital, Stoke Mandeville.
She is still very confused and appears to have no short term memory, her long term memory is also playing tricks on her. But hopefully this will pass in the coming weeks.
Thanks again everyone, your support has helped more than you could imagine.
Respect and Regards, Barry
Hi Barry, I am really sorry to hear about your mum, my thoughts are with you and your family and hope she makes a full and speedy recovery.
Michael
Hi Barry,
I wondered why you hadn’t posted for a while, very sorry to hear about your mum not being well. But I’m glad to hear she is out off the critical list now.
Also sorry to hear about your injury too… Hopefully you’ve had your run of bad luck now, it already sounds like things are looking up now?
I wish you and your mum a speedy recovery.
Paul.
Hi Barry,
Your mothers health is more important than your posts and of course your own is important too.
Hope all comes good in the not too distant future and you will be blogging again, I wish you both the very best and get well soon.
Regards
David
Hi Barry, Sorry to read about your mum, also your injury.
I wish you both a quick recovery.
Take care, Ray
Hi Mate,
Just read your last post, as we spoke before i hope all is going well,
look forward to talking again soon
Cheers
Breezie
Hi All, I would just like to thank you all again for the support. It really does help.
My mum is now at stoke mandeville hospital, which is our local and easier to visit. She’s still not right but has improved a little every day.
Thanks again, Respect and Regards, Barry
Hi Barry
Thanks for visiting my site.
Sorry to hear about your mum, looks like you have enough to cope with your back without troubles adding to your strife! Hope things are still improving for you both. Good luck with things in 2010. Hope to stay in touch.
Best regards
Will
Hi Will thanks for stopping by. Life has its hurdles mate, its a case of getting over, around or through them. Keep going forward as and when you can and you’re moving in the right direction.
Regards, Barry
That is very inspirational stuff. Never known that feeling can be this diversified. Thanks for all the enthusiasm to extend such helpful information on this post. . . .
Thanks for leaving your comment
I am very pleased that you found this inspirational, i had hoped it would be.
Thanks for the feedback.
Regards, Barry